My friends don't care..can you help? Abusive Relationship..?

Okay.. First thing. Stop smoking pot. Thats just being stupid. Second, it was stupid for you to go back. I understand where your friends are getting at. You screwed up your live. Get rid of the guy, take him to court again if you have to, focus on your future, find new good friends and start over, maybe even move. Don't let anyone drag you around, or force you into things. This is just a suggestion.